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Hey guys. I've read an article and i think u should read this thing too.. (This is love matter for girls) so, girls, what did you waiting for? hurry up and read.. Boys, just stay still. WHY HE DOESN'T LOVE ME BACK? Unfortunately it’s not always how you want it to be. You might be into some guy but for some reason he’s just not into you. You’ll first give him little hints about how you feel (not telling him bluntly) and expect him to do the same but even with this effort it seems that this guy is either not getting it or isn’t into you. Usually, the best option would be to get over him and move on, since he’s obviously not able to see what’s in front of his face and why should you care if he’s missing out on something so wonderful (you)? Unfortunately, sometimes things aren’t as easy so you’d feel a lot better if you knew exactly why this is happening. It’s true that all guys are different but often enough, it’s going to be down to one of the following 18 reasons. 1. You’re trying too hard to have him In your attempts to seduce this one particular man you might come of as very needy. This is a major turn off for men especially if they believe that they can have you at any given time. Men love the chase so it’s best to let them do the chasing… give him little hints but never go for him all the way as that will push him away. 2. He knows he can have you This is a huge turn-off for guys. A man knows he “has” you when 2 things happen. 1)You’re available all the time; 2)when you let him KNOW that you want him badly. I don’t know what is it with most men but when they know they can have you, they lose interest. You can resolve this by giving him the constant impression that you are seeing someone else and that you’ve always got a full schedule. I know this may be hard to do because all you want is to spend as much time with him but RESIST your desires in order for things to progress smoothly. 3. You’re Not His Kind of Girl Many times women get offended when a guy just doesn’t like her. It doesn’t matter what it is, you may just not be the right girl for him. Don’t let this get to you and certainly DO NOT CHANGE for any guy. Move on until the right one comes by. To help you get through this, think of all the guys you dated but just didn’t like for whatever reason – see, it’s the same with us. 4. He Only Sees You As A Friend In your presence, does this guy talk about other girls he likes? Does he give you details about his conquests? When this happens it’s obvious that you two are just friends. He may have put you in the friend zone but it’s also possible that you declined his initial advancements and allowed for the relationship to evolve like this, only to later discover that you actually like him. 5. He’s Into Someone Else You can’t expect to instantly notice if he’s a quality guy and sometimes you notice it too late. Know that he may be already infatuated by someone else or he might even be in a committed relationship. If this is the case, give it time as things might change in your favor but ideally you should move on. 6. He’s Not Sexually Into You If you’ve been friends for a long time, it’s quite possible that the image of you naked has faded away from his mind. If you see him getting excited about other women, but not you, it may mean that he’s not sexually attracted to you. You can put this to the test by dressing up and showing some skin, if he reacts, it’s good but if he doesn’t, it means that he looks at you as a friend and can’t picture anything happening. 7. He thinks you’re not compatible Think about yourself here…are there some things you desperately need to have in any potential mate? We’ll men think in the same way. It may be that for whatever reason you just aren’t ticking those boxes so, if you want to know more about this particular issue, try to ask about what he’s looking for in a woman. Is the woman he is describing you? If not, then you’ve got your answer. 8. He’s Gay As funny as this may seem, it actually happens a lot. The world is full of closeted gays that get girlfriends (and even marry) to fit in. Don’t feel offended by this because it’s not in any way you’re fault, as the saying goes “All the good guys are gay”. 9. He’s Got Unreasonable Standards There are men on this planet who think they are so great that only supermodels are worth being their girlfriends. If this is the case, forget about this douche bag, sooner or later he’s going to realize the mistake he made and you’ll see him come crawling back to you…when this happens, treat him as he did you. 10. Family Influence He may like you, but his family or close friends might not approve. If this is the case, forget about this guy as he’s not a real man anyway. 11. Religious and Spiritual Views Even in this day and age there are people who stand true to their religious views. This may not be his central reason (as people can convert) but topped off with other reasons it will stop him from dating you. 12. He’s Not Ready For A Relationship Many women don’t understand this but some of us men have a way of knowing almost instantly if a girl is relationship material. The moment we identify her as that we have to decide, do we want to have a relationship right now? Or do we want to keep on having fun? If relationship is not for your particular guy then don’t worry about him and go find one that is. 13. He Has No Idea That You Like Him Remember those subtle hints that we discussed earlier? Well he might not be getting them. You can make things easier for him if you move from subtle hints to actual words that express your feelings. Don’t tell him that you’re in love with him, but be flirty and tell him that you like this and that about him. 14. You’re Freaking Him Out If you’re with him day in day out, holding on to his arm, breathing his air and genuinely suffocating him with your affection, then you might actually be freaking the guy out. Personally, this is my type of woman – it might be down to some sort of mommy issues – but not all guys are like me so try to control yourself and appear less infatuated if you want him to notice you. 15. There’s Some Age Between You You might think that this guy is great but if you’re only 18 and he’s 28 chances are he’s not going to be interested. Regardless of what you think you know about life, sex, relationships, to him you’re going to be a kid. Usually guys that date much younger girls (18-21) are guys that can’t date girls his age. That should tell you a lot… If it’s the other way around, often times guys ask themselves the question…why is she still single at 35? Something must be wrong there… and that often turns them off 16. He Needs Time This one is very common with “great catches”. Usually guys that understand what a relationship implies and how to treat a woman etc are also the guys that run companies and have demanding jobs (let’s call them smarter…guys). A guy like this has some very clear priorities. Unfortunately in most cases, relationships and love come second before his new company, career and other “more important” things in his life. If you’ve got a guy like this, you can either trick him into a relationship (which will be a very imbalanced relationship, at least until his company/career gets to where it should be – which could take forever) or leave him on the spot and go search for a guy that has time to properly cherish you. Many of these guys are and will be married to their careers their whole life. They may seem great from the outside but once you get inside, you’ll see that many of the things that make a relationship great, are probably missing from your life. 17. He Thinks Hot Girls Aren’t Good Girlfriends A very common misconception amongst “weak” males. Because they rarely have the chance to be in the presence of a gorgeous woman, they automatically assume beautiful women are not worth it. This is usually down to the fact that he hasn’t had much success with a woman like you and as a result he feels a sort of hate towards you. Forget about this looser and get yourself a real man! 18. He’s Scared To Ask You Out Again, in my personal opinion, if a man can’t prove his role as a man, then he isn’t a man. Thus, if a guy can’t ask you out because he’s scared, to unsure about himself yada yada yada then he’s not a good man for you. However, if you’re feelings for him are so strong that you simply must have this man, despite him having weak characteristics, then do the proper “WOMANLY” thing and ask him out yourself. Do know that if you had to be the one that asked him out, your relationship will pretty much be the same….as in you’re the one that does all the doing. In conclusion, the above are very common reasons why any particular guy might not be into you, or might give you the impression that he isn’t into you. Ideally, if your potential guy is doing any of these, the best thing you can do is forget about him since there’s plenty of other guys out there that are ready to give you want you want!

Things i scared.

hey. as a human being, we are not that perfect right? Same goes to me. Somehow, people see me too childish. But, what can i say? That's me. I don't like pretending to be someone else to hide myself. no... That's not me. I love to sulk. Even i was 18teen, still, i love to sulk. I will sulk with anyone even it is my younger sister. Then, i was afraid to the storm or thunder. When there was a thunder (especially the loudest one) i will cry and look for my mom. If there was no mom, i will hug my pillow tightly and hide under my blanket until i feel so safe. Also, i am afraid to touch the cats. Hahaha... it is okay if the cat comes to me but once it jump into me, i will scream outloud.I can't stad it if peoples were shouting or mad at me. I will cry or feels about to cry. How childish i am. So, the person that wanted to marry me must be a very patient one. He must know how to treat me. HAHA :P

GRANDPA

Hye guys.. grandpa? hurm? why? Last week, i woke up around 6.30 a.m. and i checked my phone. There is a message from my sister. Without any suspicious, i read it. "sist,our grandpa was gone." short and meaningful. I was just like errrrr.. yes. I don't know what to say. Actually i can't think. My grandpa? That grandpa? I told one of my roomate and suddenly tears are falling. I didn't see him for almost a month and suddenly he left me. I want to go home but i can't. Everyone was too busy to pick me up in the college. Furthermore, it was sunday. if i go home, i have to go back to the college on that day otherwise, i will missed my classes. i went for a shower. I can't think. I take my books and went to biology class. My eyes were too tired to cry and my mind was too tired to think. Sometimes, i laugh before i realized that i have no more grandpa.

The Master's Sun

Hye.. today, i've been watching korean drama, titled, The Master's Sun... what a sad story. i think you guys should watch it to..Tensions come to a head as Joong-won's past is finally sorted out and Gong-shil remains determined to live life independently of Joong-won. While Gong-shil wants to help him resolve the Hee-joo situation, she also is terrified to be involved with him. She doesn't want him to get hurt again. It's a decent reason to sacrifice a relationship and pretend that she doesn't care, but at the same time, noble idiocy is exasperating. The storyline involving Hee-joo's living sister is a bit pedantic. What is more interesting is the effect that the plot thread has on Joong-won, Gong-shil and Joong-won's secretary, Gwi-do. The living sister is actually the real Hee-joo and she framed her twin, Han-na, for the kidnapping. This made Joong-won believe for years that the girl he loved was evil and betrayed him, but she wasn't. The emotional repercussions of the situation are poignant and realistic. They are relatable. Joong-won struggles to cope with the truth and fires Gwi-do for not telling him that he is Hee-joo and Han-na's uncle. He and Gong-shil separate now that they have no use of each other. (I want to remind them that they love each other. That's a pretty good reason to be together!) Then there is the story behind Gong-shil's past. She wandered as a spirit for three years with ghost-seeing Lee Chun-hee's character while she was in a coma. She chooses to revisit the places she visited with Chun-hee instead of remaining with Joong-won. She fears bringing him into her dangerous world and thinks she should stay with people like her. It's an understandable sentiment and really addresses a universal problem. Should people stay in their comfort zones when love is concerned? Or can they step out of those zones and love even if it's difficult? Joong-won and Gong-shil have been dancing around the issue for a while. They are of different socioeconomic statuses and she can see ghosts while he can't. These are two huge barriers to overcome. Is their love and their relationship worth the time and effort? Or is separation the best way to settle their relationship?There is one more aspect to this episode that I love: how it deals with amnesia. Rather that being a source of ridiculous conflict, it becomes a vehicle of exploration for Joong-won. Despite the fact that there is a magical block on his memory, he remains changed because of his relationship with Gong-shil. He finds that although his actions during his memory gap are surprising, he doesn't much mind them as he once would have. And he still is drawn to Gong-shil as he was before. It's a wonderful character consistency that was also seen in Park Soo-ha after suffering amnesia in "I Hear Your Voice".

cartoon crazy

Hey. What's up? hehe cartoon?? yeah.. I LOVE TO WATCH CARTOON. Tell the whole world. everytime i switch on the television, my mom always ask me, "dear, how old are you?" and i just make my innocent face and smile like there's nothing to think about. Sometime, i fight with my sisters because they want to watch korea drama but, i want to watch cartoon and of course my mom will support me. Well, i am her beloved daughter ;). As the youngest, they should let me win no matter what or i will sulking all day. Haha.. Cartoons that i love the most are spongebob and fairly odd parents. These two things will be the first thing that i want to watch when i wake up in the morning. When i was watching this two things, i will forget every single thing that make me sad..

my favourite song

one of my favourite song. i don't know why i love this song. maybe because of the lyrics. especially in the part "i'm sorry i can't be, perfect" Hey dad, look at me Think back and talk to me Did I grow up according to the plan ? And do you think I'm wasting my time doing things I wanna do? But it hurts when you disapprove all along And now I try hard to make it I just wanna make you proud I'm never gonna be good enough for you I can't pretend that I'm alright And you can't change me 'Cause we lost it all Nothing lasts forever I'm sorry I can't be perfect Now it's just too late And we can't go back I'm sorry I can't be perfect I try not to think About the pain I feel inside Did you know you used to be my hero? All the days you spent with me Now seem so far away And it feels like you don't care anymore And now I try hard to make it I just wanna make you proud I'm never gonna be good enough for you I can't stand another fight And nothing's alright 'Cause we lost it all Nothing lasts forever I'm sorry I can't be perfect Now it's just too late And we can't go back I'm sorry I can't be perfect Nothing's gonna change the things that you said Nothing's gonna make this right again Please don't turn your back I can't believe it's hard Just to talk to you But you don't understand 'Cause we lost it all Nothing lasts forever I'm sorry I can't be perfect Now it's just too late And we can't go back I'm sorry I can't be perfect 'Cause we lost it all Nothing lasts forever I'm sorry I can't be perfect Now it's just too late And we can't go back I'm sorry I can't be perfect

Driving.

Driving? who? me? hahaha yeah.. me.. Driving for the first time. What? did u think i can't drive? To be honest. I love to ride a motorcycle most, compared to driving a car. But, now, i think driving a car is more comfortable. Okey. At first, i was afraid to drive because i've never drive before. But hello.. My sister told me that when i was riding the bicycle for the first time, had i've been riding that thing before? i was thinking for a while then i smile. haha.. yeah. That's true. So what are you waiting for? get dress nicely. get the key. Start the engine. You got a place to go. (sometime i was thinking? why i was being so silly and naughty? same goes to my sister. but, i am more silly, i guess)

pervert

PERVERT.. an annoying word. Lately, i have been disturb by a person, named, Aril. I don't know where did he got my phone number but i think that he was totally a pervert. Just imagine. He knows what i am wearing, where i am going, who i am dating. Huh. Such a pervert. I still remember, i was eating at a restaurant with my friends when my phone received a message. That pervert text me. He told me that i look nice on pink. I told one of my friend and he said that he will find that person. ( Feeling safe for a while). After that day, i've never received any message from that guy until one fine day, he give me a phone call. -.- I told him not to disturb me anymore because i didn't know him. He told me his name was Airil Zafril. MEH. He think he is an actor or what? Like i was too stupid to believe. I block his phone number from my phone and i was so happy. But, somehow, i was thinking. Why did i don't block his number from the beginning? *sigh*

The Great Doctor

The Great Doctor? have u ever heard that? actually, it is a korea drama series. Once, the one who used to be loved by me asked me to watch this series.He always pretend that he is the hero of this story. Choi Young. At first, i feel that he is annoying. Just imagine. Every time he talk to me, he always said that he is the great Choi Young and he told me that i was just an ordinary girl, compared to him. I used to sulk to him because of this thing and then, he told me that i was the great doctor, yoo eun soo.Then, i smile. okey. That is not what we are talking about. This story is about two characters, General Choi Young (Lee Min Ho) and Yoo Eun Soo (Kim Hee Sun). General Choi Young is tasked with protecting the King and Queen of the Korea in the past, a country called Goryeo. The queen is attacked and on the brink of death, so the King orders Choi Young to enter a portal into “the heaven world” and retrieve the legendary doctor Hwata, who lived in Goryeo in the past and was supposed to be a miracle healer. Once through the portal, Choi Young finds himself in modern day Korea, and kidnaps the plastic surgeon Eun Soo so that she can heal the Queen. Things get a bit more complicated when the portal closes to the modern day and Eun Soo becomes stuck in Goryeo amongst sword-weilding warriors and dynastic intrigue. Choi Young promises to get her back somehow, and the rest of the show follows their growing relationship and the struggle for political power amongst the corrupt nobles.